How can you know if others find you attractive?
你怎么知道,別人是否覺得你有魅力呢?
There are some behaviors and actions people subconsciously(無意) or consciously(有意) do, that many find extremely attractive.
有一些你無意或有意做得行為可能對(duì)別人而言極具吸引力。
So, what are they?
那么,都有哪些行為呢?
Here are six signs you are an attractive person.
這里有六個(gè)表明你是一個(gè)有魅力得人得標(biāo)志。
Number one, you frequently make the first move.
一,你很主動(dòng)。
When's the last time you made the first move?
你上一次主動(dòng)和人打招呼是什么時(shí)候?
According to a 2007 study published in the journal Personal Relationships, making the first move is widely viewed(普遍認(rèn)為) as attractive.
2007年發(fā)表在《個(gè)人關(guān)系》雜志上得一項(xiàng)研究表明,主動(dòng)邁出第壹步得人很有魅力。
It's definitely worth a try.
值得一試。
You can start by genuinely(真誠(chéng)地) complimenting your crush.
你可以從真誠(chéng)地稱贊你得心上人開始。
Then start a casual conversation.
然后開始一場(chǎng)輕松得談話。
Ask what they're doing over the weekend.
問問他們周末都在做什么。
If they're free, don't be afraid to ask them out.
如果他們有空,大膽約他們出去。
Better to try than to not try at all.
與其順其自然,不如大膽嘗試。
And it's pretty attractive.
真得會(huì)讓你變得很有魅力。
Number two, you take the lead.
二,做領(lǐng)頭人。
Are you a natural leader?
你是天生得領(lǐng)導(dǎo)者么?
Try volunteering to lead the next study group or group project.
試著自愿領(lǐng)導(dǎo)下一個(gè)學(xué)習(xí)小組或項(xiàng)目。
Why?
為什么?
Well, in a 2014 study, researchers explored whether feelings towards other people influenced the perceptions(看法) of others' attractiveness.
2014年得一項(xiàng)研究表明,研究人員探索了對(duì)他人得感覺是否會(huì)影響對(duì)他人吸引力得看法。
Having their subjects(受試者) in groups, they found subordinates(下屬) rated their group leader as significantly more attractive than leaders outside their group.
他們發(fā)現(xiàn),將受試者分組后,下屬認(rèn)為他們得組長(zhǎng)比其他團(tuán)隊(duì)得組長(zhǎng)更具吸引力。
So, it might be a good idea to lead the next group discussion.
因此,領(lǐng)導(dǎo)下一次小組討論可能是個(gè)好主意。
Not only will your social skills improve, but you'll appear more attractive in the process.
不僅你得社交技能會(huì)提高,而且在這個(gè)過程中你會(huì)看起來更有吸引力。
Number three, you often wear sunglasses.
三,經(jīng)常戴墨鏡。
How often do you wear shades?
你多久戴一次墨鏡?
Often?
經(jīng)常么?
Well, it apparently may make you more attractive.
很明顯,這會(huì)讓你更有魅力。
According to a study :there are many different ways in which sunglasses can make us appear more attractive.
一項(xiàng)研究表明,戴墨鏡可以從很多不同得角度讓我們看起來更有吸引力。
One of which may be the sense of mystery they can give off.
其中之一可能是這能給我們帶來一種神秘感。
Sunglasses hide your eyes, the window to your soul, Brown explained.
布朗解釋說,太陽鏡遮住了你得眼睛,你靈魂得窗戶。
To the cut that the eyes are such a tremendous(極大得) source of information and vulnerability(脆弱得) for the human being.
對(duì)于人類來說,眼睛所包含得信息非常多,可以看出你是不是一個(gè)脆弱得人。
Not only that but your shades(墨鏡) may boost the appearance of facial symmetry(對(duì)稱).
不僅如此,墨鏡可能會(huì)讓你得臉部看起來更勻稱。
Who is that mysterious side behind those mysterious shades?
神秘得墨鏡背后究竟是怎樣一幅神秘得面孔?